Breaking Up Via E-mail? (romantic, people, message, Nebraska)
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Oh, I just hate situational ethics, because it really is all about what's convenient, rather than what's right. And people who adhere to it will eventually justify almost any kind of behavior.
How sweet of you to worry about him spending a couple bucks on gas. I's funny how we women seldom worry about a man spending money on gas to see us and to take us out. . except when it works to our disadvantage.
I did not make you look like anything - if you feel like a villain, which no one has called you - that was of no one's doing. . . perhaps it's just your conscience nudging you. You know in your heart of hearts what is right and what is wrong.
At least you know about the snot . . and this time you will carry tissues.
seriously
i could get writing things out to make sure you say everything you want to say, but it should be brought with you and done in person
however saving him 3 bucks in gas is a total copout and bs excuse
Doing it otherwise makes you look "cheap" (to not state another type adjective).
What is he, some kind of "it"?
Also, just because many others may do the E-Mail route doesn't make them right IMO, unless he/she was a Health or Physical liability in a matter of speaking.
seriously
i could get writing things out to make sure you say everything you want to say, but it should be brought with you and done in person
however saving him 3 bucks in gas is a total copout and bs excuse
Oh no no no! I am not the OP of this thread - this is not my situation! Please do not start that rumor! LOL
Oh, I just hate situational ethics, because it really is all about what's convenient, rather than what's right. And people who adhere to it will eventually justify almost any kind of behavior. In this situation e-mailing is at best, lazy. At worst, it's completely inconsiderate of a person who has devoted a year of time to a relationship. Unless the guy has been totally uncaring or abusive, he at least deserves a face-to-face.
Nobody said he doesn't deserve to be told face to face. I was simply pointing out that you cant handle every person and every situation the same way. Being told to do something the "grown up" way doesn't help at all, and who's to say what's "right"? what's right in your eyes could be completely different to someone else. Nothing's as black or white as you want to make it out to be, open your minds up a bit.
I really wish some of you people in this forum would get off your high horses...
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Nobody said he doesn't deserve to be told face to face. I was simply pointing out that you cant handle every person and every situation the same way. Being told to do something the "grown up" way doesn't help at all, and who's to say what's "right"? what's right in your eyes could be completely different to someone else. Nothing's as black or white as you want to make it out to be, open your minds up a bit.
I really wish some of you people in this forum would get off your high horses...
Unless you're talking a sistuation where, based on a history, you could encounter physical harm, I don't buy your point at all.
Nobody said he doesn't deserve to be told face to face. I was simply pointing out that you cant handle every person and every situation the same way. Being told to do something the "grown up" way doesn't help at all, and who's to say what's "right"? what's right in your eyes could be completely different to someone else. Nothing's as black or white as you want to make it out to be, open your minds up a bit.
I really wish some of you people in this forum would get off your high horses...
Thanks for your input, and I absolutely agree with you.
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I's funny how we women seldom worry about a man spending money on gas to see us and to take us out. . except when it works to our disadvantage. 
