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Old 06-27-2015, 08:14 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Why the hell do men think this????????????????????? I know why....because all you men say the same thing in regards to this....sex.

Yes...as a woman, I could roll out of bed with curlers in my hair and walk down to the corner store in my PJs and still get laid. GET LAID. GET LAID. Get...laid. Read it again. Get...laid.

Getting laid is NOT..NOT....a relationship!!! It means nothing!! Finding someone to be there for you, hold you, laugh with you, love you...THAT is just as hard for women as it is for men.

What the hell is so great about finding a dude that will crawl all over you for 3 minutes and then be ready to leave and go have a beer with his buds until the next time he wants to crawl all over you? Yeah....cause that's what women want. (please note the sarcasm)

As a woman, I know that I am looking for a TRUE, long term relationship..and hopefully one day marriage.
Tell me how easier THAT is find for a woman! SEX....yes. RELATIONSHIP....no!!

So for the love of GOD please quit saying women have it easier.
Hahaha.
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Old 06-27-2015, 09:56 PM
 
Location: Nashville, TN -
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Originally Posted by SummerFall View Post
Why the hell do men think this????????????????????? I know why....because all you men say the same thing in regards to this....sex.

Yes...as a woman, I could roll out of bed with curlers in my hair and walk down to the corner store in my PJs and still get laid. GET LAID. GET LAID. Get...laid. Read it again. Get...laid.

Getting laid is NOT..NOT....a relationship!!! It means nothing!! Finding someone to be there for you, hold you, laugh with you, love you...THAT is just as hard for women as it is for men.

What the hell is so great about finding a dude that will crawl all over you for 3 minutes and then be ready to leave and go have a beer with his buds until the next time he wants to crawl all over you? Yeah....cause that's what women want. (please note the sarcasm)

As a woman, I know that I am looking for a TRUE, long term relationship..and hopefully one day marriage.
Tell me how easier THAT is find for a woman! SEX....yes. RELATIONSHIP....no!!

So for the love of GOD please quit saying women have it easier.
This post deserves to not only win an award, but to be put into the CD Hall of Fame. And I mean that.
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Old 06-27-2015, 10:02 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Originally Posted by SummerFall View Post
Why the hell do men think this????????????????????? I know why....because all you men say the same thing in regards to this....sex.

Yes...as a woman, I could roll out of bed with curlers in my hair and walk down to the corner store in my PJs and still get laid. GET LAID. GET LAID. Get...laid. Read it again. Get...laid.

Getting laid is NOT..NOT....a relationship!!! It means nothing!! Finding someone to be there for you, hold you, laugh with you, love you...THAT is just as hard for women as it is for men.

What the hell is so great about finding a dude that will crawl all over you for 3 minutes and then be ready to leave and go have a beer with his buds until the next time he wants to crawl all over you? Yeah....cause that's what women want. (please note the sarcasm)

As a woman, I know that I am looking for a TRUE, long term relationship..and hopefully one day marriage.
Tell me how easier THAT is find for a woman! SEX....yes. RELATIONSHIP....no!!

So for the love of GOD please quit saying women have it easier.
Agreed here. The sex we can easily get isn't even guaranteed to even be good, since chances can be high the random guy is just gonna wanna get in, get off, and get out, with no extras, unless they want a bj. As someone said. The guy will treat the woman as a bunch of holes to stick his penis in-basically porn sex lol.

So no wonder some women here state they'd just as soon ready a vibrator than look for a ONS and risk having to deal with unsatisfying sex.
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Old 06-28-2015, 06:12 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Originally Posted by SummerFall View Post
Why the hell do men think this????????????????????? I know why....because all you men say the same thing in regards to this....sex.

Yes...as a woman, I could roll out of bed with curlers in my hair and walk down to the corner store in my PJs and still get laid. GET LAID. GET LAID. Get...laid. Read it again. Get...laid.

Getting laid is NOT..NOT....a relationship!!! It means nothing!! Finding someone to be there for you, hold you, laugh with you, love you...THAT is just as hard for women as it is for men.

What the hell is so great about finding a dude that will crawl all over you for 3 minutes and then be ready to leave and go have a beer with his buds until the next time he wants to crawl all over you? Yeah....cause that's what women want. (please note the sarcasm)

As a woman, I know that I am looking for a TRUE, long term relationship..and hopefully one day marriage.
Tell me how easier THAT is find for a woman! SEX....yes. RELATIONSHIP....no!!

So for the love of GOD please quit saying women have it easier.
Thank you.

I've said this over and over again on here, but a lot of the guys on here completely disregard it and say women still have it easier. If it was so simple as to "get laid," pretty sure I would've had a boyfriend by now. Fact is, those guys I liked didn't like me and just wanted to sleep with me, like that's something to be proud of.

Yes it is true not all women want serious relationships, but a good majority do. It is incredibly hard to find someone you can love and it's even harder to find someone who loves you back. I don't care about casual sex because it is pointless for me. I don't want to settle for half, or put myself in a situation that could possibly be emotionally damaging.
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Old 06-28-2015, 06:57 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Lets not kid ourselves, women in general do have it easier then men (all the way around) when it comes to dating.

Imagine if men didn't have any testosterone....men would rarely engage women for anything, Lol.

Last edited by hawaiiancoconut; 06-28-2015 at 07:53 AM..
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Old 06-28-2015, 07:31 AM
 
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Originally Posted by SummerFall View Post
Why the hell do men think this????????????????????? I know why....because all you men say the same thing in regards to this....sex.

Yes...as a woman, I could roll out of bed with curlers in my hair and walk down to the corner store in my PJs and still get laid. GET LAID. GET LAID. Get...laid. Read it again. Get...laid.

Hmmm.....I'm 33 years old and I've never had sex with a woman before, so when I actually talk to someone that's the last thing I'm getting at.
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Old 06-28-2015, 07:42 AM
 
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I would not say I have given up but I am sort of apathetic about dating in general, since it just consumes so much of my time and energy just dealing with the ******** that comes with trying to pick up women at clubs, bars, dating websites, etc. Honestly I am at the point where I just think it is a huge waste of time.
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Old 06-28-2015, 09:13 AM
 
Location: Pa
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I would not say I have given up but I am sort of apathetic about dating in general, since it just consumes so much of my time and energy just dealing with the ******** that comes with trying to pick up women at clubs, bars, dating websites, etc. Honestly I am at the point where I just think it is a huge waste of time.
Yeah I hear ya, and most fools change.


Omg I actually like her and we are getting along.......run run for the hills!

Again wish I was a lesbian.lol
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Old 06-28-2015, 09:18 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Lets not kid ourselves, women in general do have it easier then men (all the way around) when it comes to dating.

Imagine if men didn't have any testosterone....men would rarely engage women for anything, Lol.
That's an awful thing to say, hawaiian!! lol!
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Old 06-28-2015, 09:20 AM
 
Location: Pa
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That's an awful thing to say, hawaiian!! lol!
If he didn't have any testosterone, I could be a lesbian.
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