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Completely true. Just talking to people for the fun of talking to people. I'm pretty introverted, but I force myself to go out and do it. My past couple of people I dated were just people I ran into out and about (bus stop, bar) chatted with and things just happened. I had no agenda, I was just there.
Exactly. The problem with a lot of guys on here is that they treat women as if they were fertility goddesses or something. And women hate that. For the secret of women is that they want to be adored, but they despise being worshipped.
So it's more important to treat them as living, breathing human beings. And the more you stress about finding the perfect line or getting her number, the less likely you'll be to accomplish either.
Maybe it's how you go about matters. If you approach a woman thinking of her as a potential bedmate, then you're going to get shot down. If, on the other hand, you just stroll up and talk to her without an agenda, then it's something totally different. I know that sounds like jujitsu, but it's really true.
Heck, when I met my wife, I was just telling a funny story at a party to someone else I just me. I wasn't there to meet anyone or go home with anyone.
In my experience, if I talked to a woman just to talk to her, and she didn't shoot me down immediately, the result was the eternal friendzone. Nothing else ever happened. Some guys just are not attractive to women.
I don't have very strict standards I just want a trustworthy good hearted person that I'm also at least somewhat physically attracted to but can't find reciprocal attraction..
In my experience, if I talked to a woman just to talk to her, and she didn't shoot me down immediately, the result was the eternal friendzone. Nothing else ever happened. Some guys just are not attractive to women.
Yeah I've done the play it cool don't be overly agressive thing all my life and it hasn't gotten me anywhere..
In my experience, if I talked to a woman just to talk to her, and she didn't shoot me down immediately, the result was the eternal friendzone. Nothing else ever happened. Some guys just are not attractive to women.
Well, at some point you've got to pick up the pace, man. During that conversation, she'll give you the go/no go signal. If you miss it, that's your fault.
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Well, at some point you've got to pick up the pace, man. During that conversation, she'll give you the go/no go signal. If you miss it, that's your fault.
Well, at some point you've got to pick up the pace, man. During that conversation, she'll give you the go/no go signal. If you miss it, that's your fault.
I don't know if I've gotten the go. I know I've gotten the no go. Have I missed a go? I have no idea whatsoever.
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This reminds me of an image I saw once on the web...
