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Old 08-05-2014, 12:47 AM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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I could be wrong, but one thing that seems rather apparent is that guys tend to feel a connection with most women, while a woman doesn't feel a connection with a lot of guys.
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:27 PM
 
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Sounds to me like you're trying too hard. If the woman don't feel an attraction just move on. I also suggest to not just focus on this one aspect. Find some hobbies and enjoy yourself. There is much more to life than being in a relationship.
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Old 08-05-2014, 08:02 PM
 
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Yes, I felt a connection all but maybe one of them.
Dude, you're not giving us much to go on, here. Are you serious about this thread? It doesn't seem like it.

We have no idea what went down between you and those 5 women. We can't answer your question if you don't give us any info. You might as well close the thread.
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Old 08-06-2014, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Yes, I felt a connection all but maybe one of them.
And is your definition of "feeling a connection" different than "would be willing to have sex with her"?
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Old 08-06-2014, 01:17 PM
 
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The guys I haven't felt a connection with usually were the more reserved type, a person who is in their head a lot and measures what they say before they say it, or sticks to shallow points and doesn't talk about deeper thoughts...the guys where I felt a connection were more uninhibited conversationally, and it just flowed. Do you feel OP that you allow yourself to relax on a date and show your real personality, or are you self-conscious and guarded during a date/conversation?
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Old 08-06-2014, 04:22 PM
 
Location: PANAMA
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Since this seem to be a recurring problem, what can I do to make connections with women?
Keep them as friends...sometimes the connection is not there, but that doesn't mean you cannot be a good pal and they can introduce you to the love of your life. You never know.

The dating game is a game of chance, the more options you have the better.

Good luck.
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Old 08-01-2022, 11:35 PM
 
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"Last five girls that have rejected me have said they felt no connection with me"

Lack of connection is not rejection....

I don't know about that. I remember this one woman I tried to hit up after we went on a date and she was all like "DID YOU REALLY THINK THERE WAS A CONNECTION?!" in a really angry voice. How is that not rejection??
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Old 08-02-2022, 12:20 AM
 
Location: Kaliforneea
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oh wow, OP returned to their own thread 8 years later.


Hows the dating life 8 years later? I would hope you've maybe had 5 more dates with new and different girls since post #1
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Old 08-02-2022, 12:27 AM
 
Location: San Diego, Ca/ SLO county Ca
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Cause whining and sniveling is easy........ taking actions after a few failures is harder work.....
Try try try until I cry cry cry

Never Give Up!

A happy Marine is a Bi***n Marine
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Old 08-02-2022, 07:49 AM
 
Location: Ruston, Louisiana
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Since this seem to be a recurring problem, what can I do to make connections with women?
You haven't found the right one yet. A connection is made when it "just comes easy" and you enjoy each other's company and have attraction for one another. Don't "do" anything, just be yourself. Stop looking and someone will come along.
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