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I could be wrong, but one thing that seems rather apparent is that guys tend to feel a connection with most women, while a woman doesn't feel a connection with a lot of guys.
Sounds to me like you're trying too hard. If the woman don't feel an attraction just move on. I also suggest to not just focus on this one aspect. Find some hobbies and enjoy yourself. There is much more to life than being in a relationship.
Yes, I felt a connection all but maybe one of them.
Dude, you're not giving us much to go on, here. Are you serious about this thread? It doesn't seem like it.
We have no idea what went down between you and those 5 women. We can't answer your question if you don't give us any info. You might as well close the thread.
The guys I haven't felt a connection with usually were the more reserved type, a person who is in their head a lot and measures what they say before they say it, or sticks to shallow points and doesn't talk about deeper thoughts...the guys where I felt a connection were more uninhibited conversationally, and it just flowed. Do you feel OP that you allow yourself to relax on a date and show your real personality, or are you self-conscious and guarded during a date/conversation?
Since this seem to be a recurring problem, what can I do to make connections with women?
Keep them as friends...sometimes the connection is not there, but that doesn't mean you cannot be a good pal and they can introduce you to the love of your life. You never know.
The dating game is a game of chance, the more options you have the better.
"Last five girls that have rejected me have said they felt no connection with me"
Lack of connection is not rejection....
I don't know about that. I remember this one woman I tried to hit up after we went on a date and she was all like "DID YOU REALLY THINK THERE WAS A CONNECTION?!" in a really angry voice. How is that not rejection??
Since this seem to be a recurring problem, what can I do to make connections with women?
You haven't found the right one yet. A connection is made when it "just comes easy" and you enjoy each other's company and have attraction for one another. Don't "do" anything, just be yourself. Stop looking and someone will come along.
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