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Old 08-03-2014, 06:15 AM
 
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What is this a joke?

All it takes is to show genuine, true interest in a woman and respect and appreciate her for the woman she is and she will reciprocate your affection in kind?

Wow. You have got to be kidding me.

Nothing could be further from the truth.
what ever you think, but it always works for me. and as proof, look at the way the women of this forum respond to what i say. i am not saying they will jump into bed with me anytime i want, but they will respond favorably to me because i do the things i do that tell them that i LISTEN to them, to what they like, and what they want out of life rather than just let them prattle on and on and ignore everything they say. try it sometime you might find that it works for you too.
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Old 08-03-2014, 07:07 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Originally Posted by JJS99 View Post
What is this a joke?

All it takes is to show genuine, true interest in a woman and respect and appreciate her for the woman she is and she will reciprocate your affection in kind?

Wow. You have got to be kidding me.

Nothing could be further from the truth.
Actually it's true spanky.
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Old 08-03-2014, 09:29 AM
 
Location: Concord, California
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Originally Posted by JJS99 View Post
What is this a joke?

All it takes is to show genuine, true interest in a woman and respect and appreciate her for the woman she is and she will reciprocate your affection in kind?

Wow. You have got to be kidding me.

Nothing could be further from the truth.
I should be surprised, but I'm not. Here you have REAL people giving their real life advice and experience that has worked for them, and is true.
Its not like anyone said gravity doesn't work.
You have an odd way of shooting down perfectly legitimate posts.
And from what you say, you could really use the advice.
I don't get your angle.
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Old 08-03-2014, 09:55 AM
 
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It isn't a lie, but it doesn't work for everyone. Did not once work for me when I was trying to find someone. I won't shoot down the advice that someone gives if it has actually worked for them, but don't think that the advice will work for every person trying to use it.
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Old 08-03-2014, 09:59 AM
 
Location: Portsmouth, VA
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Try the next 5 and see what happens.
lol. The OP fails to realize just how many it takes to get it right. Five is nothing. Try 20 or 30; try friendships with unrequited love/longing try the friend zone try girls you are attracted to that are not as attracted to you (if at all) try a lot of weird, unique situations no one would ever believe you (if you were to tell anyone about them). Five is just getting started; OP should have experienced as much in high school, if not junior high.
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Old 08-03-2014, 10:04 AM
 
Location: East Coast of the United States
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Experts say you have to go through about 100 people before you find someone you feel a good connection with.
Good God. I never dated anything close to that many women in my life.

You might as well make a career out of it at that point. lol.
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Old 08-03-2014, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Concord, California
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On second thought....

Last edited by foclampt; 08-03-2014 at 11:14 AM.. Reason: it just doesn't seem right to say this after all.
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Old 08-03-2014, 10:09 AM
 
Location: Portsmouth, VA
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Good God. I never dated anything close to that many women in my life.

You might as well make a career out of it at that point. lol.
I'm not sure if it is necessarily about dating 100 women. You might date 5, 10, even 15, before you realize how many aren't worth your time, or how many would not be a good look for you. That is where the other 85 come in, IMHO Those are just girls you acknowledge, might have some interesting conversations with, might be friends with, etc. but didn't necessarily need to get to know further.

But yeah, if you're hooking up with 100 women, that is an entirely different story.
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Old 08-03-2014, 10:20 AM
 
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I should be surprised, but I'm not. Here you have REAL people giving their real life advice and experience that has worked for them, and is true.
Its not like anyone said gravity doesn't work.
You have an odd way of shooting down perfectly legitimate posts.
And from what you say, you could really use the advice.
I don't get your angle.
It's just not true.

So, whatever the guy's height and face, if he shows a genuine interest in you, then he's in?

It's just silly.

And please don't start in with the personal cheap shots. I have never taken a shot at you.
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Old 08-03-2014, 10:24 AM
 
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Actually it's true spanky.
It is not true at all.

Read it again.

You are saying that any guy who shows a genuine interest in you is in? And yes, I mean a true, genuine interest in you as a person, beyond the physical.

And even if it were true for you, it is not true for 99 out of 100 women.

That's not even true for making friends. How could it be true for romance? LMAO.

Last edited by JJS99; 08-03-2014 at 10:34 AM..
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