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Old 07-13-2019, 07:17 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA and Washington, DC
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Also if you do meet someone you like, how are you going to explain away having visited prostitutes. Not many women are going to be impressed by this. I feel you are self-sabotaging there.
You donít have to explain visiting prostitutes if you donít tell a woman you visited prostitutes in the first place. I think most men are smart enough not to volunteer that fact.

 
Old 07-13-2019, 07:26 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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When was the last you got some tail, JBT? Has it been that long?
 
Old 07-13-2019, 07:59 PM
 
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A friend of mine was watching something on TV with her partner about prostitution. She asked him half jokingly whether he would ever use a prostitute. He revealed he had in the past multiple times. She never saw him the same after that & they broke up.

If someone asked that would put you in the position of needing to lie or risk being judged/rejected by someone you care about. Best you can do is hope it never comes up.
 
Old 07-13-2019, 08:13 PM
 
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A friend of mine was watching something on TV with her partner about prostitution. She asked him half jokingly whether he would ever use a prostitute. He revealed he had in the past multiple times. She never saw him the same after that & they broke up.

If someone asked that would put you in the position of needing to lie or risk being judged/rejected by someone you care about. Best you can do is hope it never comes up.
Yeah well Iím lying.
 
Old 07-13-2019, 08:14 PM
 
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When was the last you got some tail, JBT? Has it been that long?
Iíve never been with a non prostitute. Itís been about a year.
 
Old 07-13-2019, 09:00 PM
Status: "Disagreeing is not the same thing as trolling." (set 17 days ago)
 
Location: Texas
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Originally Posted by Carly1983 View Post
Also if you do meet someone you like, how are you going to explain away having visited prostitutes. Not many women are going to be impressed by this. I feel you are self-sabotaging there.
There is no reason to tell anyway.
 
Old 07-13-2019, 10:10 PM
Status: "Beach time!" (set 28 days ago)
 
Location: Fredericksburg/Virginia Beach, VA
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Weight, style, face just in general I find nothing physically appealing about her.
What do you like? A specific ethnicity? Body type? What makes the physical attraction happen for you?
 
Old 07-13-2019, 10:31 PM
 
Location: Crook County, Illinois
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Originally Posted by Carly1983 View Post
A friend of mine was watching something on TV with her partner about prostitution. She asked him half jokingly whether he would ever use a prostitute. He revealed he had in the past multiple times. She never saw him the same after that & they broke up.

If someone asked that would put you in the position of needing to lie or risk being judged/rejected by someone you care about. Best you can do is hope it never comes up.
Your friend made a stupid mistake. Due to the way men's and women's evolutionary instincts operate, lying is a necessary evil in straight relationships. One thing I learned the hard way from my own relationships and the easy way from TV sitcoms, is to NEVER give my girlfriend a truthful answer. (Unless it's something 100% innocuous, like "Are you craving burgers or Chinese tonight?") Only the answers that sound true and make me look good. Case in point: "Do I look fat?" The ONLY right answer is: "What kind of question is this? How can you look fat, if you're not fat to begin with?"

So in your friend's case, if I were him, I'd say: "What, prosties? Hell, no! Those girls could be trafficked or something. And even if they're legit, I still could never forgive myself."

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Old 07-13-2019, 10:43 PM
 
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What do you like? A specific ethnicity? Body type? What makes the physical attraction happen for you?
Nah I donít really have a specific type. I like all different kinda looks.

Probably prefer white and Hispanic women but Iím open to other races/ethnicities

I like big asses but definitely not mandatory
 
Old 07-14-2019, 06:08 AM
Status: "Beach time!" (set 28 days ago)
 
Location: Fredericksburg/Virginia Beach, VA
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Nah I donít really have a specific type. I like all different kinda looks.

Probably prefer white and Hispanic women but Iím open to other races/ethnicities

I like big asses but definitely not mandatory
White or Hispanic women with a big backside shouldnít be in too short a supply in your area. Are you open to other factors as well? Would you consider dating a single mom who had her stuff together? Are you looking solely in your age group or are you willing to go a few years older than you? Are you willing to approach in person?

I know youíve discussed this stuff in previous threads but itís been a while since Iíve really been involved in the relationships forum and memory fails.
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