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Originally Posted by Carly1983
Also if you do meet someone you like, how are you going to explain away having visited prostitutes. Not many women are going to be impressed by this. I feel you are self-sabotaging there.
You don’t have to explain visiting prostitutes if you don’t tell a woman you visited prostitutes in the first place. I think most men are smart enough not to volunteer that fact.
A friend of mine was watching something on TV with her partner about prostitution. She asked him half jokingly whether he would ever use a prostitute. He revealed he had in the past multiple times. She never saw him the same after that & they broke up.
If someone asked that would put you in the position of needing to lie or risk being judged/rejected by someone you care about. Best you can do is hope it never comes up.
A friend of mine was watching something on TV with her partner about prostitution. She asked him half jokingly whether he would ever use a prostitute. He revealed he had in the past multiple times. She never saw him the same after that & they broke up.
If someone asked that would put you in the position of needing to lie or risk being judged/rejected by someone you care about. Best you can do is hope it never comes up.
Also if you do meet someone you like, how are you going to explain away having visited prostitutes. Not many women are going to be impressed by this. I feel you are self-sabotaging there.
A friend of mine was watching something on TV with her partner about prostitution. She asked him half jokingly whether he would ever use a prostitute. He revealed he had in the past multiple times. She never saw him the same after that & they broke up.
If someone asked that would put you in the position of needing to lie or risk being judged/rejected by someone you care about. Best you can do is hope it never comes up.
Your friend made a stupid mistake. Due to the way men's and women's evolutionary instincts operate, lying is a necessary evil in straight relationships. One thing I learned the hard way from my own relationships and the easy way from TV sitcoms, is to NEVER give my girlfriend a truthful answer. (Unless it's something 100% innocuous, like "Are you craving burgers or Chinese tonight?") Only the answers that sound true and make me look good. Case in point: "Do I look fat?" The ONLY right answer is: "What kind of question is this? How can you look fat, if you're not fat to begin with?"
So in your friend's case, if I were him, I'd say: "What, prosties? Hell, no! Those girls could be trafficked or something. And even if they're legit, I still could never forgive myself."
Last edited by MillennialUrbanist; 07-13-2019 at 10:41 PM..
Nah I don’t really have a specific type. I like all different kinda looks.
Probably prefer white and Hispanic women but I’m open to other races/ethnicities
I like big asses but definitely not mandatory
White or Hispanic women with a big backside shouldn’t be in too short a supply in your area. Are you open to other factors as well? Would you consider dating a single mom who had her stuff together? Are you looking solely in your age group or are you willing to go a few years older than you? Are you willing to approach in person?
I know you’ve discussed this stuff in previous threads but it’s been a while since I’ve really been involved in the relationships forum and memory fails.
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The ONLY right answer is: "What kind of question is this? How can you look fat, if you're not fat to begin with?"