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This is a very interesting thread. I've heard the whole "intimidation" thing for awhile now, and never put much stock in it. But it seems like quite a few guys are saying that they are...
I think that you may have to be the one to make the first move since guys are so intimidated. If you have that kind of affect on guys, that means you have the power, I know that might be kind of an odd thing to say. but its true. I think that sometimes people have to do the opposite of whats expected of them.
But on the bright side of that, you get to choose the kind of guys you want to approach and you wouldn't have to deal with a lot of guys that you don't anything to do with.
Oh trust me I make the move if I find someone attractive and I notice they're scared. I have no problem approaching someone
The thing is that sometimes women want to believe nobody approaches them because they are “too attractive and smart” when actually the guys around her simply don’t find her attractive, smart, or both. It may sound harsh but I think everybody should think about this. There has been times where I simply don’t get a reaction as I expected from a girl I found interesting and attractive. Is it because I am “all that”? Nope, she just didn’t find me attractive, interesting, or both and I just have to accept it as it is and move on.
Do women ever think that guys don’t approach them simply because she is not attractive to them, interesting, or both?
The thing is that sometimes women want to believe nobody approaches them because they are “too attractive and smart” when actually the guys around her simply don’t find her attractive, smart, or both. It may sound harsh but I think everybody should think about this. There has been times where I simply don’t get a reaction as I expected from a girl I found interesting and attractive. Is it because I am “all that”? Nope, she just didn’t find me attractive, interesting, or both and I just have to accept it as it is and move on.
Do women ever think that guys don’t approach them simply because she is not attractive to them, interesting, or both?
Of course! I lived to agree with you about something.
This is a very interesting thread. I've heard the whole "intimidation" thing for awhile now, and never put much stock in it. But it seems like quite a few guys are saying that they are...
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Originally Posted by himain
Sorry dear, this isn't in my head....
Can a guy get intimidated? Sure, why not. Women/men can get intimidated out there. Now, have you ever thought that a guy might not approach you for the simple reason that he doesn’t find you attractive and/or smart?
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Originally Posted by sierraAZ
Of course! I lived to agree with you about something.
Can a guy get intimidated? Sure, why not. Women/men can get intimidated out there. Now, have you ever thought that a guy might not approach you for the simple reason that he doesn’t find you attractive and/or smart?
I'm only speaking for myself, but I would imagine plenty of other women feel the same way I do, which is that we assume most guys aren't interested unless they approach us. And even then I question whether they're just making small talk/being friendly or actually testing the waters because they're attracted.
Yes it does but I go up to them anyways because you never know..
Then you win vs other women.
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